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The Kings Daughter wrote:xD As amusing as this is, please try and stay with the topic, guys. ;) EK, you should start a topic on girl advice someone. \:D/ So far, your view on the subject is most interesting.

@Young&Mighty: Is writing an actual letter a possibility, or would that difficult or awkward?::)
That would be possible if only she actually responds to them. Facebook's the only thing she ever uses. She rarely ever writes back.
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What about a phone call?
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Marvin D. wrote:What about a phone call?
I'd consider that if I didn't have to pay for long-distance calls. They're expensive in Canada.
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Skype?
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EK wrote:Skype?
I tried that. She felt uncomfortable when I asked her about it. Doesn't like Skype either.
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Well, if she really wanted to still talk to you I'm sure both of you would be making a concerted effort to contact each other. But ima tell you, long distance relationships are hard even within a country...across the world has got to be real tough.
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EK wrote:Well, if she really wanted to still talk to you I'm sure both of you would be making a concerted effort to contact each other. But ima tell you, long distance relationships are hard even within a country...across the world has got to be real tough.
I considered that for a bit. It's so hard to find the right time to chat with her cause most of the time, she doesn't look like she's in the mood. Right now, I'm considering cutting her off completely because she's just making it really hard, but I just feel that somehow God wants me to help her out in some way :?
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Marvin D. wrote:What about a phone call?
EK wrote:Skype?

Smoke signals?




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Sherlock wrote:
Marvin D. wrote:What about a phone call?
EK wrote:Skype?

Smoke signals?




Why can't I be serious today..?
LOL.

Morse code?

Anyway, in all seriousness...what EK said is true...Long distance relationships are tough, especially if we're talking a new or not-currently-existing one. I'd try to keep being friends with her and be there for her, but I wouldn't pursue anything further until A. you know she's a little closer, and B. she's a little more willing to talk to you. Help her however you can--even just listening--but don't expect anything more for the time being.
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